Swing for the fences!
Every pitch has some change talk and some sustain talk mixed in. Your goal is a home run: a reflection that draws out the client's own reasons for change.
- Single Simple reflection. You repeat or rephrase what the client said.
- Double Complex reflection. You add meaning or feeling, like a double-sided reflection.
- Home run Complex reflection that evokes change. You focus on the client's reasons, hopes, or concerns that point toward change.
- Strikeout A question, advice, or praise.
Watch the pitch clock in the scene — swing while it lasts for extra points, but a rushed single is still a single. Take a breath and go for the home run.